Chapter 2: Politeness:
The chapter begins with an example of a mayor asking how he has done this term. Most people will resort to politeness in which they respond with a resounding yes. If they were asked the same question by a friend in closed quarters, they would not be so nice, and give their true thoughts toward the mayor. The author uses this example to show that politeness is ubiquitous and automatic in nature.
I definitely agree with this view point and find myself being polite to others often when my true feelings are contrary. In order to evaluate this phenomenon further, the author presents an experiment that was performed with computers as subjects. However, I had read "The Man Who Lied to His Laptop" before and had seen these experiments or similar variations before. Thus, most of this chapter possessed non-new information.
In essence, the researchers discovered that people are polite to computers and treat them as humans. In this experiment as well in general, computers play the role of social actors. In fact, one faucet of human interaction is when in doubt, treat it as human. It becomes evident that people don't need much of a cue to respond socially.
As a general user of technology, I see no ways in particular of how this can improve my life. However, I can easily see how it can be applied to product evaluation and social interaction. Thus, I will try to make an effort to catch myself and others when we appear to be polite, but try to look deeper for hidden thoughts and emotions.
Next, the author attempts to critique the experiment. While he does a good job, I am relatively uninterested because I am already familiar with this work. This leads up to the citation of Grice, who says that quality, quantity, relevance, and clarity are maxims for politeness. The author then transitions into detailing the rules for etiquette which seem irrelevant to the underlying point of this chapter in my opinion.
Finally, the author touches on product testing. Based on the results of this study, he notes that researchers must use different computers when evaluating a computer product. Also, verbal testing for products needs to be refined so that the evaluator refrains from politeness. The author finally concludes the chapter by posing the questions of whether we should be less polite of media? I concur with the stance that the author takes on reducing politeness to media.